When we first moved to Charlotte, Queens was in the process of admitting men for the first time. I have a cousin in Charlotte and we arranged to have dinner out. This was the first time I was meeting his wife. He was a Davidson graduate and she was a Queens graduate. So I somewhat mischeviously asked her about Queens admitting men. What I didn't know was that she was the current President of the Queens Alumnea organization and her life had been an absolute hell for the previous year as the hallowed halls of Queens readied itself to be defiled by men. She launched into me with barely contained rage as she "mansplained" to me that men or no men wasn't the choice. The choice, she let me know was men or close the school down and she greatly preferred keeping it open. Her husband, my cousin, wasn't laughing at me, but it was a close thing. All I could do was sagely nod my understanding and when she started to wind down I was able to express my admiration for how successfully Queens was navigating the post-baby-boom higher education environment.