I think it’s amazing that in 2024 so many people still believe in that stuff, and sadly people believe it to an extent that it impacts politics and government.
I was raised in a liberal Episcopalian church. My dad has ways been very active in the church, which allowed me to get to know the clergy members who have been there through the years. They have all been really good people who I always liked. And the church has long been very active in charitable giving and has done many good things. Still, once I developed critical thinking skills, I could no longer buy in.
As a kid, I totally believed because adults told me that’s how it was and of course, as a kid, I was going to believe what adults tell me. In addition, in the time and place I was growing up, everyone around me pretty much believed the same thing, so it was just the way it was. But by the time I became a teenager, I began to question it all. Frankly, it all defied basic common sense and logic.
Still, for a number of years, I was hesitant to say I was an atheist. I would instead refer to myself as an agnostic if people asked. But I have been an atheist for quite some time. It is unfortunate that in a society where religion, particularly Christianity, is so frequently forced upon us— including those of us who don’t want it in our lives— just stating that we are atheist can offend those who presume we buy into the their religious beliefs.
Raising kids has been interesting with regard to religion. If it were up to me, religion would not be part of their lives. But my wife is Jewish. And for many Jewish people, it’s very important that their children have a Jewish identity. So our kids attend Hebrew school and are essentially being raised Jewish. And I get why my wife wants that. Her great grandparents and great great grandparents escaped persecution for their religious beliefs and Jewish identity. Many of her other relatives were killed in the Holocaust due to their religious beliefs and Jewish identity. So I totally get why she wants to preserve that identity through generations, and I’m totally cool with that. For me personally, what I hope my kids ultimately get out of it when they are old enough to truly think for themselves is that they have a Jewish identity and that the biblical stories are fantasy.