Is rooting for sports teams worth it?

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I started to ask myself this question more seriously a decade or so; it can be phrased as I did in thread title, or more provocatively, "is rooting for spots just stupid?" I never reached what I would consider a "general" answer, but I did reduce my viewership. I'll just make some observations. The backdrop, of course, is that we generally have no power over the success of our favorite teams. Right off the bat, putting your happiness entirely in the hands of others is of questionable wisdom, but anyway . . .

1. I see people saying on the other thread, "This loss killed UNC football forever," or at least the milder form of "we will never live this down" or "this will be a source of embarrassment for a long time."

I have no opinion on that. But I'll bet there is nobody at TCU saying that this victory put TCU on the map, and for good. The emotions are asymmetric, and the negative emotions seem always more powerful to me. That is to say, in this game at least, rooting for sports teams is a net negative activity. The residents of this country would be better off if the game had not been played or at least not been watched.

2. Well, don't get blown out. Sure. But 95% of the lists of "worst losses" I've seen involve close games. Often extremely close. What are some of the worst losses for the UNC fan base? Utah '98 is certainly one of them. We didn't get blown out. We just should have won. I'd wager that UNC fans were way more upset about that loss than Utah fans were happy. The Chris Keldorf INT game against UVa. We were winning almost the whole game. We lost by a FG? Why was it a gut punch game?

I'd offer that losing is, in general, so much worse than winning is good. Maybe that's just me, but I don't think so. Win a game, party that night and then it's back to your normal life the next day. Losing a game can bum fans out for weeks, months, or in some cases even longer. Back when I was younger, if UNC lost a game, it could get me down for a week. I was so pissed off after losing to G'Town in 06 or whatever year it was.

3. This imbalance is made more extreme by the sports culture of winning. There can be one champion and everyone else goes home unhappy. Well, exaggeration maybe. There have been games I didn't mind losing because I felt that we were successful just getting there (HD's finals appearance in whatever year that was. Time in the Trump era is just a smear), but for the most part, that's not the case. And of course, if you're just happy to get there in year 1, usually the expectations increase to the point where the fans aren't just happy to be there. Like HD's next year.

In one sense, the best teams to root for are the ones that mostly suck. You rarely have big disappointments, because you are not expecting much, and every now and then you can have famous victories, like Appy St. over U of M, or even more extreme, Chaminade over UVa. But then you're rooting for a sucky team, which is not what we normally consider to be the point. And it gets old, right? So sports teams are caught in this cycle of desperately trying to get better, which just makes the experience of being a fan worse.

4. Athletes are not exactly reliable. If you had to put your happiness in anyone's hands, star athletes are pretty far down the list of reliability, I would think. They can get injured. They can be immature. They can get old in a hurry. They can demand a trade or transfer. Their effort can wane. I'm not necessarily saying anything bad about the athletes themselves. It's the structure of their profession.

So: maybe passionate fandom for sports teams is objectively stupid. Thoughts? I realize there are a lot of assumptions in here that might not be warranted, and/or false empirical intuitions.
 
the only thing i hate about it is the insane amount of money that is blown on something that really means less than zero in the big scheme of things. we could easily wipe out childhood cancers and other terminal diseases with that money, but we have such goddamn fucked up priorities in this country
 
Any coach worth their salt will tell you that there is a huge asymmetry in the emotional impact of a loss versus a win. The worst nights of sleep I have after games are after one possession losses; your mind gets stuck on all the things that you could have done different in the game to have won the game. Blowout losses also make for terrible sleep...you start questioning your guiding principles (especially if you thought the game was going to be close).

Now for fans...that's just a different boat, unless you have a financial stake in the team. Getting upset after losses is just plain dumb.
 
I think sports fandom is great if you can keep in mind that you're largely cheering for folks you don't know based on how a ball that you can't control bounces. If you can do that, it is a wonderful form of entertainment and a diversion from the really important things in life.

If you are the kind of person who elevates the performance of sports teams to a life-or-death situation and allow the outcomes of games (or particular recruitments) to greatly affect your mood and outlook on life, then sports fandom probably isn't worth it and you should probably focus your time and attention elsewhere.
 
Decades ago I would rake my leaves in the Fall while listening to Woody call the games I would get some excercise, get my yard raked and have the diversion-occasional joy-out of pulling for my team.
Then for several decades I went to the games-it blew the whole day-the crowd was ugly half the time because we "underachieved"-and the yard did not get raked
Last night the game was on tv at night-for $$. I sat in a chair-bored my GF-and drank 4 beers-like 2 would not be plenty The fourth one was because I was unhappy about being blown out
I did do a lot of yard work in the daylight yesterday-which was good
 
I find fandom stupid, maybe not objectively, but certainly in the vein of "we have enough fucking tribalism". Mind you, I speak to this from the frame of college sports fandom = bitter rivalry, ie Texas A&M vs Texas, Baylor, Texas Tech, LSU, etc. There are no “good job ol’ chap” after any of those games, and, thus, sports are just another opportunity to elevate divisions and to ridicule.

Sports fandom became a substantially smaller component of my life when I moved to a place with sparse laundry-rivals, and with remarkable outdoor opportunities. It took another HUGE hit with the transfer portal (which I think is a just mechanism, ftr), and yet another with seven and eight figure deals for 18 year olds. When I was in school, I had numerous football and basketball players in classes, living in my dorm and apartment complexes, eating at the same dining halls, etc. There was a somewhat shared experience of place, routine, traditions, language, etc. That’s largely gone at wealthy P4 athletic departments (speaking to football and basketball), and there’s an associated cost.

I’m grateful for what the transfer portal and NIL has done for my discretionary time.
 
So: maybe passionate fandom for sports teams is objectively stupid.

I’ve thought about this often. Usually every March once the NCAAT comes around. Not so much "is it worth it" but "why". Why care so much about the outcomes of games that don't affect you at all?

I've played sports, cheered for friends/family playing sports, have been a casual sports fan. I've also done the vested interest sports betting thing. There is a great deal of logic in all of that

But passionate fandom for a single team? It doesn't make sense. Also, I'm not sure it's an entirely conscious decision
 
I’ve thought about this often. Usually every March once the NCAAT comes around. Not so much "is it worth it" but "why". Why care so much about the outcomes of games that don't affect you at all?

I've played sports, cheered for friends/family playing sports, have been a casual sports fan. I've also done the vested interest sports betting thing. There is a great deal of logic in all of that

But passionate fandom for a single team? It doesn't make sense. Also, I'm not sure it's an entirely conscious decision
 
I think it is worth it. I look forward to CFB in the fall as much as anything.

I used to get really upset when OU lost and it would last for a few days. Sometimes I would wake up on a Monday or Tuesday and think something is off then remember we lost the game on Saturday.

I don't take it nearly as seriously now unless you're talking about the 2006 OU vs Oregon game then my blood pressure rises and I want to find and hurt some PAC 12 officials.

But mostly I move on quickly now and have for 20 or more years.
 
What is funny is how many ways we find to hate (using the term loosely) or disparage others.

Two fans of the same CFB team end up calling each other names because they root for different MLB or NFL teams.
Two people with similar general outlooks and political opinions fight over their sports team or vice versa.

If you put a dozen fans of the same school in a room, just bring up professional sports, religion, or politics and you will end up with most thinking the others are inbred hicks.
 
If you put a dozen fans of the same school in a room, just bring up professional sports, religion, or politics and you will end up with most thinking the others are inbred hicks.
To be fair, if you've read anything about politics on IC in the past, there is a good chance the person I'm disagreeing with is an inbred hick.
 
I used to enjoy the player development and team development of team sports, and I'd choose the heels for this entertainment college-wise. NIL has kinda killed this, without player dev aspects the game and season are less interesting.
 
I used to enjoy the player development and team development of team sports, and I'd choose the heels for this entertainment college-wise. NIL has kinda killed this, without player dev aspects the game and season are less interesting.
And just maybe the transfer portal rules worse
 
Evolution leaves some behind and this is where we are.

It’s never going back to how it was. I’m grateful to have been witness to the golden age but college sports will keep going and keep prospering even if the old timers fall to the wayside.
 
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