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I had one of worst ones I’ve ever had other day driving. Had to pull over on rural road for hours till it passed. I pulled off next to a random outdoor shelter that had a spicket that I ran my head under to bring my blood pressure down because I thought I was about to have heart attack. It felt humiliating if anyone saw me. I don’t care for Xanax and that type of medication but I may need it going forward I reckon. Just wondering if any of you guys struggle with it as well and how you cope. My only other ones I’ve had I woke up into. I rarely drink alcohol and dont partake with thc anymore.
 
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I had one of worst ones I’ve ever had other day driving. Had to pull over on rural road for hours till it passed. I pulled off next to a random outdoor shelter that had a spicket that I ran my head under to bring my blood pressure down because I thought I was about to have heart attack. It felt humiliating if anyone saw me. I don’t care for Xanax and that type of medication but I may need it going forward I reckon. Just wondering if any of you guys struggle with it as well and how you cope. My only other ones I’ve had I woke up into. I rarely drink alcohol and dont partake with thc anymore.
Talk to your doctor of course. I keep everything bottled up and try to keep in control at all times. Usually that's a good quality. But it can be bad when you let things pile up inside with no release. That's what caused mine.

A very low dosage (lowest available) of the anti-anxiety med Venlafaxine helped me go years without a single episode.

I did find a couple of types of situations where they came back. Doc gave me Propranalol for those. I'd take one an hour before those situations. Would normally make me rage inside, but my heart and breathing was just fluttering as calmly as ever. Normally, I would feel my chest start to pound, shorter breaths, lightheaded and dizzy, like you are dying -- well you know how they go.

Good luck! Send a private message if you like.
 
I feel your pain.

I’ve dealt with moderate depression/anxiety for decades. Luckily I manage it fairly well with weekly therapy and a low-dosage antidepressant.

But the last few months have been extraordinarily difficult. My mom passed away in late February, and as I detailed on a different thread, I was laid off from my job about 2 weeks ago. Not to mention the constant feeling like our country is on the verge of a civil war.

I’ve never had panic attacks before, but I’ve had two recently. Once in the middle of Harris Teeter—totally hyperventilating, walls closing in, thinking that everyone knows that I’m a failure and/or a bad son and is looking at me. Left my grocery cart in the aisle and rushed out of the store, had to sit in my car for ~15 mins before I felt safe to drive home.

We live in the worst timeline.
 
I feel your pain.

I’ve dealt with moderate depression/anxiety for decades. Luckily I manage it fairly well with weekly therapy and a low-dosage antidepressant.

But the last few months have been extraordinarily difficult. My mom passed away in late February, and as I detailed on a different thread, I was laid off from my job about 2 weeks ago. Not to mention the constant feeling like our country is on the verge of a civil war.

I’ve never had panic attacks before, but I’ve had two recently. Once in the middle of Harris Teeter—totally hyperventilating, walls closing in, thinking that everyone knows that I’m a failure and/or a bad son and is looking at me. Left my grocery cart in the aisle and rushed out of the store, had to sit in my car for ~15 mins before I felt safe to drive home.

We live in the worst timeline.
Im so sorry to hear about your Mom man. Both you and Krafty been thru it, probably more than me. I get the feelings you had 100%. I’ve been prescribed to Clonidine before and luckily had it back at the house when I got home. But it took me hours to feel able to drive again and even then I was fighting off the feelings to make it home. I’m up tonight because I’ve been sleeping a lot with the Clonidine. I don’t still normally take that stuff but thank god I had it to get me through. I’m taking day off tomorrow to talk to my doctor because I feel uncomfortable driving anywhere after that experience.
 
Talk to your doctor of course. I keep everything bottled up and try to keep in control at all times. Usually that's a good quality. But it can be bad when you let things pile up inside with no release. That's what caused mine.

A very low dosage (lowest available) of the anti-anxiety med Venlafaxine helped me go years without a single episode.

I did find a couple of types of situations where they came back. Doc gave me Propranalol for those. I'd take one an hour before those situations. Would normally make me rage inside, but my heart and breathing was just fluttering as calmly as ever. Normally, I would feel my chest start to pound, shorter breaths, lightheaded and dizzy, like you are dying -- well you know how they go.

Good luck! Send a private message if you like.
Will ask my doctor tomorrow about those suggestions 100%. Appreciate you.
 
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I'm curious, how many Drs prescribe meditation these days? I have sleep anxiety issues (that have gotten more manageable), and while the dr (neurologist/sleep med) prescribed me lunesta/ambien (this was 15 yrs ago) he also urged me to meditate.

I don't meditate anymore, but I know some people find it helpful for general anxiety and other types.
 
The general panic attack sounds bad. At least with things like fear of flying or public speaking you can just avoid flying or pub speaking. Or pop a propranolol an hr B4.
 
I used to have them but not as severe as you are describing. It’s an awful feeling. I have avoided them for years. I don’t drink and follow a pretty strict diet and exercise regime. I do sauna and cold plunge. With that said, I have no clue if that stuff is what reduced the issues or if I have just avoided them. I’m so sorry to hear that you are struggling with this. It is a huge challenge.
 
I’ve been there too, especially during the pandemic when anxiety felt overwhelming. For me, propranolol and lexapro, combined with meditation and therapy, made a big difference in managing the attacks and overall anxiety.

These days, I’m just on lexapro since the panic attacks have lessened enough that I don’t need the blood pressure meds anymore. Everyone’s experience is different, but finding the right mix of medication and coping tools really helped me feel more grounded. I think I had always suffered from anxiety and didn’t realize it until it hit an apex.

You’re definitely not alone in this.
 
Never personally, but my wife has and my youngest daughter does.

Sorry I can provide any advice.

I do hope that you are able to figure things out and manage them.
 
Lexapro saved my life, fair to say. I’ve not had the intense panic attacks, but a pretty noticeable background of anxiety that popped up after having kids and being the sole provider for my family. Lexapro attenuates that and I’m way more functional and pleasant to be around.
 
Lexapro saved my life, fair to say. I’ve not had the intense panic attacks, but a pretty noticeable background of anxiety that popped up after having kids and being the sole provider for my family. Lexapro attenuates that and I’m way more functional and pleasant to be around.
I take Lexapro as well. I started feeling overwhelmed with anxiety after I was diagnosed with brain cancer in 2022. It really helped me a lot to deal with the emotional challenges of going through cancer treatment and uncertainty of how long I would be around to take care of my family. The cancer turned out to be a much slower progressing and lower grade tumor and I continue to do really well on that front to this day.
 
All great feedback so far. Sorry, I am just checking back in since I first responded. I appreciate others sharing their stories. I also believe that exercise, nutrition, meditation, therapy, anything like that may be helpful to some extent. But, if yours have already started or worsening, meds can start helping fairly quickly.

I am not a doctor or scientist, and certainly have no training in this field. I have no idea if heredity is a factor. I just know myself as we all do. I am extremely independent, responsible and planner for the future, and most importantly making sure my kids are taken care of. Health concerns, employment concerns. family splits, etc can add immense pressures on a person like that.

And if you don't learn how to deal with it, it will build up inside until manifesting same as an extreme fear of flying or public speaking. The GREAT news is, once you know what it is. it can be controlled medically. In fact, I suffered from attacks for several years. I was meeting my brother for dinner to go over some things I needed some help with due to health issues (non-financial). Since it is extremely difficult for me to ask for help, and so important for me to be self reliant in all aspects, I went into a full blown panic attack after we ordered and I began talking about it. I had to leave the restaurant, the room was spinning, I could feel my heart pounding in my chest, I could hardly speak and felt like I would pass out. My brother sat with me in the car. As I finally started feeling just a little better, he told me it was a panic attack. His wife gets them so he knew. I had no idea, after having many, until then. And yes. I paid for our orders, to go.
 
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Panic wTF???? are you being chased by a madman with a machete? are you outside weaponless and being chased by a starved pack of wolves?

what in the fuck do people have to be panicked about? i swear we have one fucked up society of entitled pampered pill poppin human beings with absolutely zero perspective.
 
Panic wTF???? are you being chased by a madman with a machete? are you outside weaponless and being chased by a starved pack of wolves?

what in the fuck do people have to be panicked about? i swear we have one fucked up society of entitled pampered pill poppin human beings with absolutely zero perspective.
Ah yes, the classic “unless you’re being literally hunted by wolves, your brain should be totally fine” argument. Thanks, 14th century medicine guy.

Let me introduce you to something called evolutionary psychology. Turns out the human brain didn’t magically update when we left the savannah. It still reacts to perceived threats, even when they’re emotional, social, or existential. Wild, I know.
 
Panic wTF???? are you being chased by a madman with a machete? are you outside weaponless and being chased by a starved pack of wolves?

what in the fuck do people have to be panicked about? i swear we have one fucked up society of entitled pampered pill poppin human beings with absolutely zero perspective.
You are a clueless, compassionless turd of a human being.
 
Panic wTF???? are you being chased by a madman with a machete? are you outside weaponless and being chased by a starved pack of wolves?

what in the fuck do people have to be panicked about? i swear we have one fucked up society of entitled pampered pill poppin human beings with absolutely zero perspective.
i know this a troll post but it’s not even cute. Try harder.
 
Panic wTF???? are you being chased by a madman with a machete? are you outside weaponless and being chased by a starved pack of wolves?

what in the fuck do people have to be panicked about? i swear we have one fucked up society of entitled pampered pill poppin human beings with absolutely zero perspective.
Experiencing anxiety while being chased by the machete madman wouldn’t be a disorder.

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Re: benzodiazepines - Definitely not something you want to develop addiction to, but I find them good to have around if needed. For one, the fact that you know it’s available if needed can make it less likely you’ll need to take one.
 
Panic wTF???? are you being chased by a madman with a machete? are you outside weaponless and being chased by a starved pack of wolves?

what in the fuck do people have to be panicked about? i swear we have one fucked up society of entitled pampered pill poppin human beings with absolutely zero perspective.

Ignorance is bliss.
 
Surprised nobody has mentioned Buspar. Very mild, not addictive, no cognitive effects. Worth asking your doc about. It's one of those anti-anxiety drugs you really can't even tell you're on, except for the reduced anxiety.
 
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