Trump is a uniquely malign force in the history of American politics, so the language that has been used to describe him is also, understandably, uniquely malign. How hard is that to understand? You sound like you're saying that no matter unfit Trump is to be President, no matter how reprehensible the rhetoric he uses and the policies he enacts are, and no matter how much danger he poses to the country or to the world, that we are obligated to discuss him in polite, neutral tone as if we're debating whether chocolate or vanilla is the better flavor of ice cream.
On the Saturday of Labor Day weekend, in the middle of the night, agents of the Trump admin woke up more than 100 unaccompanied minor migrants staying in shelters in Texas, told them to pack a bag, and tried to immediately put them on flights to Guatemala. After advocacy groups got a federal judge to stay the injunction in the wee hours of the morning - again, over a holiday weekend - a Trump justice department official came into Court and accused the advocacy groups of preventing "reunification" between the minors and their families back in Guatemala, all of whom, he said, had requested that the children be returned. Within a week, the justice department attorneys had to admit that this was a total lie - and that in fact, when the Guatemalan government contacted the families of the children that they could locate, not a single one said they had requested the children be sent back.
You tell me - what language should I use to describe an administration that (1) wakes up scared, alone kids in the middle of the night to deport them, (2) does so, quite intentionally, in a manner designed to make it difficult to prevent the deportations before the children's rights can be advocated, and (3) then shows up in court and unapologetically makes up complete lies in an attempt to justify their actions? This is the style of government that Trump brings to our country - one of force, intimidation, blatant and constant lying, and flagrant disregard for people's legal rights. Which is not surprising, because that is the person that Trump has openly and unapologetically been his entire life. And your response is that we need to stop using mean language to talk about this person, his administration, and his political movement?