McAdooSmackinYou
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I've long believed racism, conscious and subconscious, to be a huge motivating factor in our politics, but the last decade is really making me wonder if gender is really steering the boat. We have an absolute crisis of masculinity in this country. Millions upon millions of men – young, old, rich, poor, flabby, ripped – look at this room full of complete fucking losers and at best want to be the chief loser getting his balls tickled by even bigger losers. At worst, they think being one of the ball ticklers is in and of itself some sort of achievement. I just cannot imagine debasing myself like they do. I grew up around solidly working and middle class people – not poor, but very few college grads, and some semi-successful small business people – and I just don't remember the men being so fragile and embittered. Perhaps it's rising inequality creating fewer pathways where young men can move up the ladder, I don't know, but most women don't seem to have this problem. Gay men don't seem to have this problem. Trans people don't seem to have this problem. They just suck it up, put their heads down, do their work, and still manage to have some empathy at the end of the day.Republicanism all starts to make sense when you realize that for the absolute vast majority of the men in the party, they probably never received the affirmation that they clearly crave from male role model figures, and the majority of the women have weird daddy issues, so it has culminated in what we have today, which is a bunch of insecure little suckups falling all over one another to compete and beg for scraps and morsels of “Daddy Trump’s” attention.
I think about this video occasionally. Can't get it to embed but it's Bill Friday interviewing Dean Smith. These men were absolute giants. Can you imagine a conversation like this happening today, in public? Their decency and humility and concern for others seems downright queer. This is what I thought it meant to be a man when I was ~20. I really can't wrap my head around it.