From reading that article linked above, and reading between the lines, I think it seems probable that Dorrance was trying to coach his team in 2023 the way that he coached his team in 1993 or 2003, and that just doesn't really fly anymore. And I don't think it's necessarily an indictment of these younger generations of players being "softer." I think it's incumbent upon coaches to evolve and adapt, not just their game planning, strategies, and X's and O's, but also their coaching style, methods, and ways of relating to their players. Most older coaches can't do it, and they end up staying well past their "sell by" date to the detriment of their programs- Bobby Bowden, Joe Paterno, etc. etc.