Thanks for taking the time to lay all that out.
1. I’m very aware of the patterns you point out: how the left’s infighting and refusal to coalesce behind Democratic nominees has contributed to repeated losses going back decades, including 2016 and 2024. I don’t take those lessons lightly. I understand the consequences of “sitting out” elections or throwing votes away as protest. That’s why I’ve voted for the Democratic candidate in every election I’ve been eligible to vote in. That’s why I’ve worked for Democratic campaigns, Democratic organizations, and Democratic elected officials since high school.
That history doesn’t mean honest, critical conversations about the direction of the party or the qualities of candidates should be shut down or dismissed as “moronic” or as coming from a “pariah group.” That kind of framing doesn’t advance the discussion; it closes it. It’s this dynamic that I’ve seen time and time again while working in Democratic politics. I’m not a leftist activist or whatever box you want to try to fit me into.
2. My critique of Newsom isn’t about “ridiculing” or wanting him to lose for the sake of it. It’s about a real concern that if the Democratic nominee feels like a slick product without emotional resonance for working-class and disaffected voters, the party is at serious risk. Emotional connection matters; it’s a fundamental part of politics that can’t be ignored. Calling that “populist left fantasy” misses the point. This is about strategy, plain and simple. I want to win elections and build power. That means reading the room and understanding what voters are responding to, not just what looks good to insiders or in focus groups.
Look, if the line about Newsom sounding like a “TED Talk and a DNC press release had a love child” set you off, that might be worth unpacking. Not because I was trying to provoke you personally, but because your reaction reveals something bigger.
You said: “Why throw in the shot at the DNC? You could make the same point by saying Newsom looks like a walked TED Talk without AGAIN taking a shot at Dems.”
But here’s the thing: the phrasing wasn’t meant to insult the DNC as an institution. It was a shorthand for a certain style of political communication. One that’s over-rehearsed, overly focus-grouped, and deeply disconnected from how real people talk and think. That matters because we’re in a moment where voters, especially disaffected working-class ones, are sick of being talked at. They’re tuning out the language of authority, even when the policies are decent.
1. The conception of the left as a pariah group isn't an insult; it's a critique that the left has to take seriously -- in the exact same way that Dems should take your critique seriously. Leftists hate the Sister Souljah moment, and call Clinton a traitor because of it (or did, at least). They have not grappled with the implications, not that I've seen. Yes, there were racist undertones there. But Clinton couldn't win the election by standing next to Jesse Jackson, and certainly not next to hip hop. It costs more votes than it gains.
To take an even more vivid example: Bernie's lack of appreciation for the pariah nature of his politics cost him the nomination in 2020. He might have been victorious if he had just shut up about Fidel Castro. There's only one right answer in American politics to the question of whether Fidel Castro is good: he's not. He is a bad guy who has mired his country in poverty for seemingly forever. Yes, the American sanctions on Cuba were ridiculous and unhelpful, but the main problem was Fidel. Talking about Fidel's good side and critiquing America is just shit politics. So when you say that Bernie is good at talking to Americans, I'd beg to differ. He's good at talking to some Americans, like you. He's bad at talking to, say, wmheel who IIRC has said he would never vote for Bernie.
And it doesn't matter that Bernie had previously praised Fidel in the 1980s. The proper response would have been, "I was a mayor of a small Vermont town at the time. I've learned a lot since I've been in Congress. That's a good thing, not a bad thing." Saying, "well, Cuba has a great health system" is the wrong answer.
Arguably, that answer was more responsible for the Dems recent misfortunes than any of the factors often cited. It meant that the Dems had no choice but to take Bernie out, because he would have killed us up and down the ticket with whatever dumb shit he might have done next. Biden was the only consensus candidate, so he become the only viable not-Bernie option. And thus our low-energy octogenarian, who had clearly lost his fastball even at the time, became our standard bearer.
2. You are talking to a sophisticated audience here. When you say that Newsom comes across like a walking TED talk (I added the walking, but only because I've seen that trope in a lot of places), we understand that you are attacking his messaging style. We can read between the lines: you don't think our candidate should be corporate in style and presentation. Fine. That's certainly not a ridiculous point. Don't bring the DNC into it.
3. I propose an exercise for you, since you're young and can still learn new things. It's a bit CBT inspired; hopefully heelinhell will endorse it.
Go one month without saying anything about Democrats in general, and nothing negative about any individual Dem. Praise the folks you think worthy of it, and we will get the message that you are skeptical about the folks who you're not praising. To say, "I love Beshear becomes he comes across as so authentic" is also to say sub silentio that "Newsom doesn't." The difference is that yhou leave open a range of interpretive possibilities, and thus avoid alienating people.
For instance (using me only for an example)
You: Newsom comes across too much like a TED talk, whereas Beshear is more authentic.
Me: I think Newsom is more authentic than you give him credit for
You: Maybe, but after 2024, I don't want to take any chances. Let's go with a proven Middle America whisperer.
All the same content: none of the internecine feuding. If you took this approach more often, I'm pretty sure it would vastly improve your future prospects as a political actor.
4. As for my tone: yeah, that's a weakness of mine. That's my autism -- in my case, I trained myself to be incredibly attuned to other people instead of myself. Usually it means I'm generous and empathetic in many ways. I'm good at critiquing other people's behavior, both good and bad.
As to myself, I apparently have no real understanding of how I come across to others. It's not for lack of trying. I think I simply cannot focus on myself and other people at the same time, and I've chosen the latter because empathy is better than self-absorption. The consequence is that there's a gap I fail to bridge. I do my best.
So yes, I'm aware of that irony.