As someone who is part of a happy marriage but we've never had kids, I find his obsession with this topic to be genuinely weird, disturbing, and more than a little frightening. He seems to believe that people like us should be punished by the government with fewer voting rights or higher taxes or some other restrictions, and if we were younger then forced somehow to have kids like something out of The Handmaid's Tale. In VanceWorld women who don't have kids simply have no value, so young women should be coerced by a Big Brother government to have babies in some way, through extreme abortion restrictions, restrictions on access to all forms of birth control, and so on. He truly is a weird, disturbing dude who seems to honestly believe that there is only one way for women to live, and that's by having kids and taking the lead role in raising them, no exceptions.