I cook by smell and feel, often measure many ingredients in the palm of my hand or by taste, so I'm terrible as sharing recipes. My SIL wanted my spaghetti sauce recipe and going back to read that text thread was hilarious ... I'm like "when the aroma draws people into the room to ask how much longer it will be, you'll know its time to add the next spice ..." and she's like "wait, what" but then later said that was exactly how it worked ... she knew to take the next step when the aroma made her family come in and ask how long and could they have a taste.