I grew up 20 minutes from Lexington BBQ and there’s still an inherent bias in me that “real” BBQ is Lexington style.
My absolute favorite joint growing up was actually Carter Brothers in High Point, but sadly they closed down just before COVID. I’m not sure if the ‘Q at Carter Brothers was actually the best or if it was also partially because of nostalgia and all the days I spent there in my childhood eating meals with family and friends. But it was damn good.
Speaking of nostalgia. Stamey’s BBQ before walking over to watch the ACC tourney at the coliseum in Greensboro. Flashbacks to a simpler time. The Q may not be top shelf but I still go there any time the tourney is in Greensboro, sometimes 2-3 nights in a row.
I now live in Raleigh and have grown to like some of the Eastern style options like Sam Jones and Longleaf Swine just about as much as Lexington style.
One thing I agree with from earlier in this thread is that if a restaurant has to put 9 different sauces out for people to choose from, that’s lame. The best places don’t really do all that.
I used to be repulsed by the idea of the SC mustard-based stuff, but on a football road trip to Clemson last year I gave it a try at a local place down there called the Smokin Pig, and holy moly I have to admit it was one of the most delicious things I’ve ever had. Apparently Kirk Herbstreit won’t ever call a game at Clemson without stopping at the Smokin Pig. I can certainly see why.
Spent a lot of time in Dallas and I love Texas brisket and ribs, but I actually like NC BBQ more.
In summary, I truly do like it all but if I had to choose, give me Lexington BBQ.