I'm not asking for him to change anything about his personality, ability to connect emotionally, do anything different regarding his gf, or change his relationship with fans.change his personality and become a person who emotionally connects with his players, fires his nepotism staff, puts a short leash on his GF, begins to embrace fans, and hires a staff that he empowers to do their jobs.
Look at game 1, nobody in that packed crowd seemed bothered by his personality or relationship with them as a fan.
The player connection stuff sounds like sour grapes or rumor. Ask the #17 ranked recruiting class.
Changing staff is the only interesting thing from your list to me and he hinted at being open to this from the outset.
(TBH I'm having trouble take anyone seriously when the gf is stop the list of grievances, correlation != causation)