it frustrates me because you could argue that "democracy" as it is currently imagined in the United States does have some real issues - namely, that loud pluralities or minorities can be completely ignored. rather than the productive dialectics imagined, in some form or other, by most of the great philosophers, one side can just steamroll the other. Texas gets imagined as a red state because of, mathematically speaking, a pretty slight majority, and the fact that there are more Dem voters there than any other state than California doesn't matter because of this vision of democracy.
There's a part of me that thinks we should be aiming for a politics of consensus rather than a politics of majority rule, but i suppose American politics is too broken for that, and even this version of democracy is eons better than any alternative that its critics on the Right might put forward.