Your posts brought something up that I've been thinking about off and on, just never posted. And, this is in no way directed at you.
We are all HD guys. There is not one UNC fan that thinks it would be cooler to win with someone else outside of the family. It would be so magical to see HD have our program rolling and where we've been historically. How cool would that story be: UNC continues it's on-court dominance in the sport, and has done it with all in-the-family leaders, and currently with a leader who played, and learned, under the greatest to ever do it, and learned from another greatest of all time, all UNC people. That is a fucking awesome story, and I can't think of (m)any other programs, including all sports, who can say that.
The problem is, HD doesn't have us in a spot that has become standard for UNC basketball. I think the split we're seeing between the "two camps" is that some are fine not meeting the UNC-standard, as long as the program is being lead by someone from within the family, while others would prefer the program to meet the standard set by Dean, Roy, all of the other coaches, and the players, regardless of if the person leading the program is from within the family or not.
For me, I think those that set the standard would rather the program live up to that standard (on and off the court), and they realize that everyone starts outside of the family before they become a part of it.