It’s all a matter of perspective. Also, it helped that during those years, Miami, YF, and FSU were each in different conferences.
If my family had the money, I’d have gone to UM and would’ve never had reason to root for UF or FSU.
But given that we didn’t have an extra 200k for me to attend UM, I went to state schools.
We lived in/around Gainesville throughout my high school years, and so it made sense for me to attend UF—despite the fact that I hated the Gators. But because I was then attending the school—and because they happened to be real fucking good in football, baseball, and to a lesser degree basketball—I of course went to games when I could and at least became a moderate fan whenever they played other SEC foes.
FSU was a little tougher to root for, given the bad blood between them and Miami. But my grad school experience there was fantastic, and I’ve got several life-long friends who I attended games with.