Why do y’all lie about this stuff? It’s not like any of it is really subjective. Why are y’all so desperate to reside in some alternative timeline or universe where everything is so….bad….instead of the current real one where everything is so…good…by pretty much every objective standard. Just curious to know what y’all are thinking and your reasoning, that’s all. It’s completely totally fine that y’all don’t like Biden or Harris or even Democrats or whatever. I just don’t understand making up a completely false alternate reality to try to justify it to yourselves.
I'm not a conservative, but I have an answer (or at least a hypothesis). Although I think there are 2 distinct answers to your question that have to be explored.
First, I think you have to realize that the last 32 years have been a large-scale repudiation of conservatism at the national level (which has tricked down to the state and even local levels). At the end of Biden's term, Dems will have held the WH for 20 of the last 32 years. And the 2 Republican presidents? Dubya (bottom 10 president, historically) and Trump (worst. president. ever.). In those 32 years, Pubs have advanced almost nothing novel or even largely coherent in terms of a vision for the US. Dubya tried - "compassionate conservatism" - and then pooped all over it in practice by not doing very much to actually put it into place. In the last 32 years, Republicans have lost on nearly every major issues except one (abortion, they overturned Rvw...and it's been a cluster). So, Republicans have to face that there are only two real options here...either (A) Dems largely winning the political discussion has been good for the country and conservatism is wrong or (B) Dems have made things incredibly worse by being largely in control of the country for the last 32 years.
Here's where the second answer to your question comes in.
The rise of right-wing media has made it where conservatives don't have to hear or engage with facts that don't fit their narrative. For many conservatives, every bit of "news" they hear tells them that things are terrible in the US. That the economy is terrible, that urban areas are hellholes, that immigrants are destroying America, that white people are the most discriminated race in the country and it's getting worse, etc. There is a whole media set up that exists to convince conservatives that the repercussions of Democratic leadership in our country is that everything is bad. That Democratic goals and initiatives have been a failure. And that only conservatism can fix all of the problems that Dems have created. And these media channels supply a constant supply of "facts" to butress their claims. So when all of your media consumption is supplying you with "facts" that fit the narrative you want to believe, it is difficult to break away from those "facts".
And then the two come together.
So when folks outside the right-wing media ecosystem present actual data that doesn't support right-wing viewpoints, you're really not asking conservatives to merely accept certain statistics...you're asking them to admit that conservatism in the US has failed. Because if they are forced to admit that the statistics presented by governmental or other expert-led agencies are correct, then they are also forced to admit that liberal ideas have worked fairly well.
If you recognize that many urban areas in the US are doing fairly well (and doing better than rural areas); then you have also have to recognize the Dems leading those areas have had success.
If you recognize that our economic indicators, even where merely decent, often lead the world; then you have to recognize that Dems have had success in leading our economic recovery after COVID.
If you recognize that providing minority rights have not destroyed the country; then you have to admit that providing those rights to minority groups were, at the least, a decently good idea.
So, in short, it takes the creation of an alternative reality where the world is falling apart due to Democratic leadership and ideas in order for Pubs not to have to admit that Dem leadership has been successful and that conservatism, as currently constructioned in the US, has lost the political discussion and is no longer valid as an opposing political belief system.