No exaggeration. Bigs was never on the fence. Anyone who ever questioned any decision by HD was met with all kinds of accusations - from not being a fan to having a hatred of HD, to all kinds of other shit. You've never been to the level of Bigs with his shit.
See, you're exaggerating again. "Anyone" who ever questioned "any" decision by HD? I know that to be false, because I questioned decisions by HD and was never accused of anything.
The problem is that beefs on message boards can develop over time in a way that is unhealthy. It's not just on this topic but it's more visible here. Let's go through it:
Step 1: Alice and Bob have an argument.
Step 2: The argument doesn't resolve itself. Alice and Bob do not "agree to disagree." They don't reach a point of consensus about anything. They just continue fighting.
Step 3: Whatever they were arguing about fades in importance. This is the important step and what makes sports conversations toxic in this regard. The day after the game is step 1. The day after that is step 2. And then there's a new game. We're no longer going to argue about the last one.
Step 4: Except that Alice and Bob aren't done arguing. They were never done arguing. So now there's a new argument after the next game. It presents as a new argument, but it isn't new at all. It's a continuation of it.
So then what happens? You bring up a point of criticism -- let's take an example from the VCU game so it's fresh in mind, and let's also take an example that isn't controversial. Our guys looked tired at the end and their FT shooting confirmed it. So maybe it was a mistake not to use the bench. This is something that could be talked about reasonably.
But it doesn't get talked about reasonably because you aren't really talking about that. You are still arguing over Step 1. And Step 1 might have been a year and a half ago and the fight goes on still. So when you now say, "Bigs accused anyone who ever questioned any decision," that's sort of true but more misleading. He might have been outraged or indignant about the specific criticism, which was novel. But the gist of the criticism, the people making the criticism, and the general tone of the criticism is not new. It's the same as always.
This was one of my points in comments last night. Arguments get jumbled together because everyone is looking to argue. So what happens is things get distorted. Reading the comments last night, one could get the impression that HD was one of the worst coaches in the country. He is very much not. Whatever you think of him, he does actually know how to design and coach offense. Maybe he doesn't do it as effectively, or maybe his efforts get cancelled out by other factors, or what have you.
And another result is that the criticisms become incoherent. In part that is an unavoidable consequence of a multi-person message board where different people, generally on the same side of the issue, espouse different theories. Over time, it becomes harder to separate who says what, and thus everyone gets assigned positions that they don't necessarily hold, but someone on "their side" does. And that makes conversation impossible.
It's like I was saying about losing big leads versus starting too slow. That's fundamentally incoherent. If you think the team that is winning by 19 at some point in the game is the better team, then every time we start slow, it's not our fault: the other team is better, by stipulation. Or, on the flip side, if we get a big lead, maybe it's because the other team started slow.