As I've shared many times in my history n this board, I grew up a hardcore conservative in a hardcore conservative family in a hardcore conservative part of the state. I have also always been a military history nerd, specifically World War II, and so I distinctly remember being in middle school and being excited about the war in Iraq. We were going to get to use the big, bad U.S. military and go blow up the bad guys! I remember being excitedly glued to the TV in March 2003 on the first night that hostilities commenced, and I used to come home from school every afternoon and excitedly turn on the news to watch the coverage of the war.
Later the next year, after the second battle of Fallujah, what was left of one of my favorite cousins came home in a casket. That was the first taste of the horrors that come from war that I experienced.
In 2019 after my wife's medical school graduation we spent 6 weeks before she started residency traveling in Southeast Asia- Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos, and Thailand. We went to the Killing Fields in Cambodia, and in Vietnam went to the Son My Massacre museum, the reconstructed My Lai village, and the nearby mass grave site. It's really difficult to even articulate how distressing and disturbing the images and artifacts were in each of those places, a painful reminder of war's unfathomable death and destruction. My wife has an uncle with whom I am particularly close, who was an Army Ranger in Vietnam in the 75th Infantry, who arrived at My Lai shortly after the massacre. Naturally he will not talk about it other than to say that he still sees the haunting images every single day in his mind more than 5 decades later.
I say all of that to say that I've long ago lost whatever bloodlust I had growing up as an ignorant, brainwashed asshole conservative who thought nothing of the U.S. bombing the shit out of people on the other side of the world. There is no justification for doing what we are currently doing in Iran. I don't necessarily have an issue with targeted, pinpoint strikes on Iranian nuclear facilities or missile batteries. I do have a major issue with indiscriminate carpet bombing of Tehran, a city of 10 million innocent people. I do have a major issue with the bombing of an elementary school (whether accidental or otherwise). I do have a major issue with the sinking of an unarmed Iranian naval vessel thousands of miles away from home, and then abandoning drowning sailors to their fate in direct violation of the Geneva Convention. I do have a major issue with the notion that yet again we are facing the prospect of putting American boots on the ground in the Middle East that will lead to the shedding of American blood, all in the name of a conflict that the overwhelming vast majority of Americans staunchly oppose.
I don't have all of the answers by any means, but I do know that the answer is not what we are currently doing and how we are currently doing it.