Is this why Dem’s Approval Rating Polls are so bad?

Liberals are determined to do stupid shit.

Protesting in Times Square yesterday by saving around Iranian flags. It’s one thing to be anti-war and not want to get involved in the conflict. Waving the flags of Iran and having pro-Iranian flags is beyond ridiculous. And for most Americans, they immediately see that and know which side of the political spectrum they fall.
Exactly. Another stupid hill on which Dems will happily die on.

At the end of the day, we stupid Americans get what we deserve, we get what we voted for. And we voted for Trump twice. We asked for it. We got it.
 
Exactly. Another stupid hill on which Dems will happily die on.

At the end of the day, we stupid Americans get what we deserve, we get what we voted for. And we voted for Trump twice. We asked for it. We got it.
I have never voted for Trump. Every day I see him, I think how did he win?

Then I turn on the TV and the Democrats are protesting and yelling and supporting the stupidest causes and I think ok, I get it. It’s not that it makes sense but the Democrats have struggled on the most simple things. It wouldn’t be so frustrating if the Democrats didn’t have the right position on policy things basically every time but they are so stupid politically.
 
Nobody wants anybody “messing with kids” and if Republicans don’t want anybody “messing with kids” then they shouldn’t have elected the felon to be their president. That fucker has probably messed with teenage girls much more than any transgender would even think about such things. Pubs don’t want a trans in the girls bathroom period. And they create the strawman argument that a trans in the ladies room equates to “messing with kids”. It’s pure BS but it resonates with grandma.

As far as Bruce Jenner entering a foot race in the women’s division…. That’s another issue altogether. I’m not at all sure I’m in agreement with that myself. However, that instance doesn’t and isn’t happening much at all. Very few instances have been recorded as far as we know. The problem with Dems is they keep wanting to die on that hill to allow Bruce to enter that race. The Dems go all in, 100% on that issue and they trumpet it for all the world to see. I think that’s a mistake. If Bruce in a ladies foot race makes up about 0.00001% of the population, then the Dems ought to give the issue about 0.00001% of the oxygen in their messaging… not 100%.

Where the Pubs win in this issue - according to the polls - is they use this total non-issue as 110% of their messaging and it works like a charm on grandma and grandpa… you know, the base of the party… they eat it up.

The Dems fall into the trap of exacerbating the issue by defending Bruce’s right to race in the division of his (now her) choice. I think Gavin Newsom may be on to something… Dems need to quit dying on that bill.
Again, given the Pubs will simply move to the next wedge issue if Dems compromise on one specific issue, how do Dems engage on social issues without essentially giving up on a wide swath of social issues?

As you note, before transgender athletes in sports, it was transgender folks in bathrooms. If Dems concede on sports, Pubs will simply focus back onto bathrooms with similar electoral results. So how do Dems handle transgender issues without giving in across the board?
 
I have never voted for Trump. Every day I see him, I think how did he win?

Then I turn on the TV and the Democrats are protesting and yelling and supporting the stupidest causes and I think ok, I get it. It’s not that it makes sense but the Democrats have struggled on the most simple things. It wouldn’t be so frustrating if the Democrats didn’t have the right position on policy things basically every time but they are so stupid politically.
Dems keep following the loony left and they keep trying to move the party even further left. And it doesn’t work. The Centrists and this unaffiliated voter gets turned off.

I never even considered voting for trump, and never would, but it’s becoming painfully obvious how the pubs got some Center-left folks to either vote for him, or perhaps more obviously, to not vote at all. And that’s what handed the election to Taco Donny.

Having said that, the Pubs have followed their right-wing-wackos all the way to the right… way overboard to the right… and it seems to work for them. They won. They’re winning. And loony liberals in Times Square waving Iranian flags at this point in time is not a good look…

Those loony libs may think they’re supporting the Iranian people - the ordinary Iranian who doesn’t like the current regime, who doesn’t support the Ayatollah, who doesn’t support those who back Hamas, etc. - but waving the Iranian flag is the exact WRONG way to show that support. Waving that flag now is sending the exact OPPOSITE message.
 
Dems keep following the loony left and they keep trying to move the party even further left. And it doesn’t work. The Centrists and this unaffiliated voter gets turned off.

I never even considered voting for trump, and never would, but it’s becoming painfully obvious how the pubs got some Center-left folks to either vote for him, or perhaps more obviously, to not vote at all. And that’s what handed the election to Taco Donny.

Having said that, the Pubs have followed their right-wing-wackos all the way to the right… way overboard to the right… and it seems to work for them. They won. They’re winning. And loony liberals in Times Square waving Iranian flags at this point in time is not a good look…

Those loony libs may think they’re supporting the Iranian people - the ordinary Iranian who doesn’t like the current regime, who doesn’t support the Ayatollah, who doesn’t support those who back Hamas, etc. - but waving the Iranian flag is the exact WRONG way to show that support. Waving that flag now is sending the exact OPPOSITE message.
The sad thing is the vast majority of Americans support Democratic policy positions. The Hispanic move to the Republicans is going to be what dooms the party until they adjust. I do think they will eventually but seeing Hispanics have such a high approval rating for Trump (by far the highest of any group) makes me sick. I understand the Hispanics are pro-traditional family (whatever that means), more religious, and prefer tighter immigration but there’s simply nothing in the Republican platform that is really for them.
 
The sad thing is the vast majority of Americans support Democratic policy positions. The Hispanic move to the Republicans is going to be what dooms the party until they adjust. I do think they will eventually but seeing Hispanics have such a high approval rating for Trump (by far the highest of any group) makes me sick. I understand the Hispanics are pro-traditional family (whatever that means), more religious, and prefer tighter immigration but there’s simply nothing in the Republican platform that is really for them.
Hispanics are anti abortion, anti gay, pro Christian, anti trans, prone to misogyny… and those who are here legally and from certain countries tend to be racists as all get out. Doesn’t that sound like the Republican platform?
 
Hispanics are anti abortion, anti gay, pro Christian, anti trans, prone to misogyny… and those who are here legally and from certain countries tend to be racists as all get out. Doesn’t that sound like the Republican platform?
I don’t believe the majority are racist. The overwhelming majority of every racial group is not racist.
 
You’re saying people want a story: something emotional, moral, and bigger than themselves. I agree. That’s what Trump offers, even if it’s a destructive fantasy. He gives people the feeling that he sees them, that he’s in the fight, that he’s sticking it to the people they think have looked down on them. It’s theater, but it feels like truth. And in politics, feelings build loyalty more than facts.

That’s why Democrats need more than policy tweaks. They need someone who can tell a different kind of story rooted in dignity, work, and shared struggle. Not spectacle, but purpose.

Your story illustrates the point perfectly. People want to laugh, feel seen, feel understood. That emotional connection matters more than whether every fact checks out. It’s not about lying, it’s about recognition.

And yes, Trump offers that. But so could we. If we told stories grounded in real life—in labor, sacrifice, and community—we could meet that emotional need without surrendering to fantasy. It seems like you already know how to do that. The political left needs to catch up.
Kamala did a lot of what you're calling for. 🤷‍♂️
 
How is it that the gay rights movement went so well for Dems, while the trans rights movement backfired so badly?
 
The sad thing is the vast majority of Americans support Democratic policy positions. The Hispanic move to the Republicans is going to be what dooms the party until they adjust. I do think they will eventually but seeing Hispanics have such a high approval rating for Trump (by far the highest of any group) makes me sick. I understand the Hispanics are pro-traditional family (whatever that means), more religious, and prefer tighter immigration but there’s simply nothing in the Republican platform that is really for them.
Racism is ultra powerful in the Hispanic community....particularly toward other Hispanic people.
 
It’s the same tired pattern: voters move right, and instead of asking what the Democratic Party failed to offer them, emotionally, materially, narratively, liberals insist those voters were simply too backward to appreciate the moral clarity on offer. That’s a losing posture. You can’t build a majority by resenting the electorate.

If most Americans broadly support Democratic policy positions (as you rightly note), then the question is: why aren’t those policies translating into votes? That’s the terrain we should be focused on: what kinds of messaging, storytelling, and coalition-building are actually capable of turning latent support into durable political power.

Treating whole communities as culturally defective or morally suspect because they don’t vote blue every cycle is exactly how you lose them for good.
But what if I do resent the electorate? Like vicerally resent them? That's the bridge we are at for the audience you're trying to convince here.
 
If you think Kamala Harris told a story rooted in dignity, work, and shared struggle, then we weren’t watching the same movie.
Apparently not. When I read your posts I get the sense that everything you say has FOX News spin hiding behind it. Not that you are watching and believing FOX but that you perceive someone like Kamala in the way they want people to perceive her. There is an entire apparatus in place to convince people that Trump doing a photo op at McDonalds makes him real and down with the poors in a way that Kamala, who actually worked at McDonalds and frequently talked about that experience, is not. You seem to just accept their manipulation of the electorate and then blame the Dems for not reaching goal posts that are always going to shift no matter who Dems put up.

Granted, I don't read all your posts, and agree with much of your class-based analysis, but I don't see much criticism of the media from you, nor do I get the sense you accept that people hear messages from women and people of color and queer people differently than they do straight white men. I don't think Kamala was perfect, but put her words and policies in a white man's body, and she wins easily.
 
Do you not remember that Republicans already tried the bathroom panic, and it backfired? Pat McCrory lost the 2016 North Carolina governor’s race because of HB2. The backlash wasn’t because Democrats caved or stayed quiet; it was because the issue was reframed: as government overreach, economic sabotage, and a needless culture war that made NC a national punchline.

The lesson isn’t “give ground on trans issues.” It’s that you don’t win by playing defense. You win by shifting the emotional terrain: mocking their obsession, tying it to real-world harm, and showing voters who the real weirdos are.
I was thinking the same thing. The trans issue for bathrooms with a loser. McCrory lost his political career for that issue and a couple others.

I think the sports issue is a lot more nuanced. Who cares that the person sitting next to you in a stall had different equipment at one point? It doesn't affect me.

But I think a lot of people care if their daughter is playing against someone who has the physical attributes of a guy. Democrats need to acknowledge that and come up with a more nuanced position. And I think there's a way to balance the concerns of a young kid going through a tough time versus a high-level female athlete put in an unfair or even dangerous competition.
 
But it’s not just about saying the words. It’s about whether those words land, whether they form an emotional through-line. Did most voters come away feeling she saw them, felt their struggle, and was fighting for them?
I think we disagree on their subconscious willingness to have those words land. The notion of a woman "fighting for" men is a nonstarter for a lot of men.
 
First, forget about wondering how it is too many voters are choosing the Republicans. The GOP is simply taking advantage of how bad the Democratic Party's reputation is with voters. It doesn't take much work by Republicans to do that.

Second, its going to take a presidential candidate that can refashion the Party's brand away from being the Party of special interest groups to being a Party that works for Americans as a whole. Pull that trick off, and the rest will take care of itself.
 
Answer me one question well and I'll take your reply seriously:

How do you build a coalition that includes both transgender folks & their strong allies plus working class conservatives that will vote against transgender rights even to their own economic detriment?

Please give me real specifics of how you bridge that gap, not generalities about "emotional connection" and "telling the right stories" unless you're going to tell me, with specificity, what stories you can tell that will bring those two groups together to vote for the same candidates.

Note: My take isn't because I'm about "moral binaries", it's because working class conservatives are. I'm glad to live in a pluralistic society where everyone can live out their own lives and beliefs as long as it doesn't infringe on others' lives and rights. But as long as Dems aren't willing to sell out LGBTQ+ folks, then we're not appealing to (white) working class conservatives in any real numbers because it is that group will fuck up not only their personal financial futures but the entire fucking economy in order to vote against "wokeness" (read: minorities).
I believe the stories need to show trans people as humans. But I don't believe any story will change the mind of a person that sees trans as being against their religion.

I have a friend who voted for Trump. He really just doesn't understand being trans. He has a friend who's adult child is transitioning, while he doesn't understand, he believes it is that person's choice and is supportive.

He is worried about the sports and bathrooms. When talking he seems to have bought into the propaganda and didn't understand the numbers and existing laws.
 
I hear your frustration, and I get where it’s coming from. There is an entire media apparatus designed to delegitimize Democrats, especially women, people of color, and queer candidates. That distortion is real, and we have to confront it. The answer isn’t to deny when messaging falls flat or assume every failure is purely due to bias. It’s to ask: what actually connects?

You say Kamala “frequently talked about” working at McDonald’s. But it’s not just about saying the words. It’s about whether those words land, whether they form an emotional through-line. Did most voters come away feeling she saw them, felt their struggle, and was fighting for them? I don’t think so. The dominant affect of her campaign was not solidarity, it was resume. Competence. Justification. That’s not a Fox News spin, that’s what millions of disengaged or reluctant voters felt.

So yes, you’re right that bias exists. People absolutely hear messages differently based on who’s delivering them. But bias isn’t destiny. Obama cut through it. Why? Because his message felt real, rooted, consistent, and aimed directly at the material conditions of people’s lives.

You also say you haven’t seen much media criticism from me. Fair enough, but it’s been beat to death on this board. I’ve spent much of this thread talking about how Democrats are filtered through a hostile media ecosystem, and how the liberal class fails to understand narrative power. What I’m trying to do is name the emotional and rhetorical gaps that do exist so we can close them. That’s not giving in to Fox, it’s learning how to beat them.

If we want to win, we have to be able to say two things at once: the media environment is toxic and our messaging needs work. It’s not either/or. It’s both/and.
OK, now that you've recycled the same post 15 times, maybe we can switch it up at halftime? For a poster talking incessantly about persuasion, you're doing a pretty poor job of persuading people here. Let me offer some suggestions.

1. Stop invalidating. Do you know how long I have been a Democratic activist? Since I was 16 years old and organizing college students at the tail end of the Reagan Bush years. Some here go further back than that. I've been doing this for considerably longer than you've been alive. I've been through some shit, man.

So why shouldn't I be offended by your tired derogation of our efforts over the years? Or the stupidity of saying, "Democrats have never tried this strategy" even after it's been repeatedly pointed out to you that Democrats and liberals have, indeed, tried this? I promise you this: if there was a universalist message that would resonate with the working class, Dems would have seized it long ago.

There's almost no meat on the bones you offer. It's all about, "we need a message" with no thought given to the obstacles to the development of that message. It's more or less pure optimism. You've said this is a message board and not a peer review board and that's fine, but if you can't offer anything but derogation of our past efforts with essentially nothing constructive, your shtick gets old fast.

Or, to put it another way, what if you had more curiosity about what emotional and social dynamics have caused us to not to trust working class white people? What if you didn't just slap on a label like "neoliberal" or "corporatist" and move on?

2. Let's take a close look at this thing you wrote, and I'd like you to justify it or apologize. "You point out that they vote against their material interests but you don’t really ask why. You don’t show any curiosity about what emotional and social dynamics fill the void where trust in government used to be. You just slap the label “bigot” on them and move on." To this I want to respond: Fuck you, little twat. I don't respond that way because I'd like to be polite to good faith actors, but it's also true that some of this shit makes my blood boil and I'm not the only one. I don't think you really appreciate what you are implicitly saying.

Never have I just slapped the label "bigot" and moved on. To the contrary: I have spent more than half my life, more years than you've been alive, trying to figure out why they vote against their material interests. Genuine asking. Good faith study. Reading about people. Listening to people. Teaching law students, some of whom are MAGA.

"Bigotry" is not my assumption. It's my conclusion after these decades of observation. See, you were in high school when Trump came into office. My guess is that most of your political education occurred during college, probably from other students as that's the way it usually works. And maybe some of the college students in 2019 just assume that it's bigotry and move on. But just because it happened this way for you doesn't mean it happens this way in general.

If you can't respect that my positions are thoughtful, informed and personally felt, then why should I give you the time of day? And I'm not alone here. Not everyone has time, memory, interest and/or ability to expound their thoughts and experience as clearly as I do, but a lot of posters have similarly thoughtful, informed and personally felt experiences. You get so much pushback because your posts so utterly fail to appreciate that. Usually you give a sandwich response like, "I hear you, I do, but [a whole lot of invalidation]" that gives no indication of meaningful engagement with the ideas you dismiss in the brackets. Maybe that's not what you mean, but that's the message you're sending.

3. I would say that you have repeated yourself over and over on this thread. That suggests your message isn't landing or isn't persuasive. And again, coming from someone who is preaching about persuading people, connecting with them over their lived experience, it's quite rich that you're doing neither.

I don't fault for you that, by the way. The message here isn't that you're a hypocrite. It's that things are much harder than want to acknowledge. If you can't get through to this audience, maybe the persuading thing is not so easy. While you've agreed with those words, I don't think you've really understood the message.

4. FYI, I did a lot of politics in Missouri in the 1990s. When I started, Missouri was a bona fide swing state, a bit more blue than red. When I left, it was on its way to becoming the red state Gilead that it is today. So I had my feet on the ground during some of these big shifts. What's more, the campaigns didn't have me go talk to black inner city voters. Probably a good choice. So they sent me to county fairs to talk to the blue collar white folks. I wasn't so good at that because I had trouble identifying with them, but I listened.

At the time , I was optimistic like you. Sure, we have racial struggle, but material concerns are important. In fact, my candidate's signature issue was protecting social security. He was a bit of a cultural liberal, a law professor by trade, but he had a long and distinguished resume with regard to social security.

Here's what I heard: very little about economics or money or trade or social security. This was around the time of NAFTA. The unions were perhaps making a lot of noise about it, but not so much the folks on the ground. Probably most of them didn't belong to a union. Not a single one ever expressed any interest in joining one, and a couple visibly recoiled when I asked them if they thought maybe unions might be helpful in solving some of the state's economic issues (there were a few Missouri-specific things that formed the basis for that chain of thought). Unions are for commies, they said.

By contrast, I heard A LOT about cultural grievances. Hillary was a lesbo. Slick Willie was a fraud, a fake Christian who sins and pretends to be repentant. Feminazis. Oh, man, did I hear a lot about feminazis. And yeah, plenty of hard rs. My only exposure to that, really. It usually came up in the following context: one of the leading candidates for the Dem primary that year was black. My candidate was less known, which is why we were out at the county fairs. So when I approached people, saying the standard line of "can I trouble you to talk about [ ] for a minute" or whatever we had been trained to say, a fair number of responses were, "that's not the n****" candidate, is it?" Hard r.

That's an anecdote, to be sure, but it's also backed up by data. And by discussions with others of similar age and experiences.
 
I was thinking the same thing. The trans issue for bathrooms with a loser. McCrory lost his political career for that issue and a couple others.
That was 2014, wasn't it? The trans panic was just getting started. It didn't have national resonance, which is why it was unpopular in North Carolina.

Something like 20 states have passed bathroom bills in the past couple of years, I think. It is not a loser any more.
 
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