lawtig02
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Yeah, I think we mostly agree. My analogy to breast cancer was largely because, as you say, it's not contentious. In fact, it's probably one of the LEAST contentious causes out there. The fact that DV is not also completely noncontentious is a massive black eye for men. And I could see the dial moving a little if an organization like the NFL, which is highly likely to be followed and respected by abusers, would come out and say DV is every bit as worthy of our social attention and correction as is an obviously noncontentious issue like breast cancer.OK. I was making an assumption because of your conservative past and that post. It's not that I thought you were unaware of the issue, only that you might not think about it much. If you represent DV victims regularly, then it would appear my assumption was off. I wasn't putting much weight on it, of course. It was a rhetorical post-starter.
As a general matter, I don't think it would matter if the NFL came out unequivocally against domestic violence. Men don't abuse wives because they think it's an OK thing to do. They do it because they think it advances their interests. They rationalize it as a not-that-bad thing (or even a perfectly acceptable thing in some cases). Having the NFL say it's wrong doesn't address any of the underlying issues. Breast cancer is, of course, an inapt analogy because breast cancer is not a contentious issue. Nobody is for breast cancer. Nobody emotionally relies on breast cancer. At most, men are indifferent to it, but nobody is going to feel threatened by eliminating breast cancer.
We're probably getting into another thread here, so I'll likely leave it as it is, but I do think we mostly agree.