Is this why Dem’s Approval Rating Polls are so bad?

Do you not remember that Republicans already tried the bathroom panic, and it backfired? Pat McCrory lost the 2016 North Carolina governor’s race because of HB2. The backlash wasn’t because Democrats caved or stayed quiet; it was because the issue was reframed: as government overreach, economic sabotage, and a needless culture war that made NC a national punchline.

The lesson isn’t “give ground on trans issues.” It’s that you don’t win by playing defense. You win by shifting the emotional terrain: mocking their obsession, tying it to real-world harm, and showing voters who the real weirdos are.
Pat McCrory - a moderate Pub - lost the governorship because he pissed off the Charlotte business community (over a variety of things, including HB2) and they moved on to a very, very, very moderate Democrat who was about 1.5 steps to the left of McCrory. However, the Republican Party in NC has been going pure gangbusters since HB2 and are doing quite well. Additionally, even after the eventual repeal & sunsetting of HB2, local governments often passed similar ordinances in their communities and trans rights have continued to be under attack.

The Pubs, by and large, won the war of marginalizing the trans community, even if it eventually kinda lost the battle of HB2. And that is in a somewhat purple state like NC, in redder states things are much, much worse for the trans community.

The idea that you think HB2 shows a "successful" fight on behalf of a minority community would be laughable if it didn't show the shallow victories we can expect from "shifting the emotional terrain".
 
That’s what’s been missing from the Democrats lately. They keep elevating polished technocrats, people who are smart and credentialed but don’t make folks feel anything. They sound like managers, not leaders. And most voters aren’t looking for a manager. They want someone who speaks from the gut and fights for them with moral clarity. Not “messaging,” not “positioning,” but real emotional conviction.

We need to start nurturing leaders like that. Not waiting for the next Obama to materialize, but creating the conditions for someone to rise up from below who can actually connect across lines of race and class and geography. Someone who means something to people.

I erased all but the last two paragraphs, but focusing on the the latter: you think leaders like that can be nurtured? Really. I see much has been made of Josh Shapiro's speaking style. Seems he has copied Obama. So being a copycat is nurture? Don't think that's what you mean, but nurturing a Presidential leader is a tall task.

Speaking of elevating in the prior paragraph. It's interesting that every single one of the most likely Democratic candidates for President have a law background, Political Science background, communications background, or wealthy private (elite) schooling background. Newsome and AOC being somewhat exceptions. So based on your criteria of real emotional conviction............doubtful any of the known ones can meet the mark.
 
No one said HB2 was a total victory or that trans rights are safe in North Carolina. The point is that Republicans overreached, and they paid for it.

Yes: Cooper was a bland, centrist Democrat; that strengthens the argument. In a state Trump won, an uncharismatic moderate beat an incumbent Republican. IIRC, this was the first time an incumbent governor had lost a reelection bid in North Carolina history. Not because people fell in love with progressivism but because the GOP faceplanted on a culture war issue and got tagged as both extreme and economically reckless. That’s how terrain shifts.

You’re also treating the Republican recovery since then as proof that HB2 didn’t matter. But temporary setbacks don’t stop them from coming back. That’s true of any power struggle. If you’re going to dismiss every successful pushback just because the right eventually regroups, you’re basically arguing that nothing matters unless it ends in total victory.

You’re right that trans rights are still under attack, in North Carolina and elsewhere. That’s exactly why we need to understand what actually worked during the HB2 fight: not moral scolding, but reframing. Turning their cruelty into a joke. Tying it to real-world harm. Making them look like the weird ones obsessed with bathrooms instead of schools, jobs, or healthcare.

So it seems to me that shifting the emotional terrain is effective, not shallow.
I'm not understanding how Cooper winning as a bland centrist Dem is advancing the thesis that we need more emotional resonance and connecting with voters. It seems to cut the other way pretty clearly to me.

McCrory lost because the NBA pulled the all-star game and the boycotts of NC were brutal. Again, this was the bleeding edge of the trans panic. Nobody is batting an eye at these things any more.
 
this is just blatantly false.

a LOT of right wingers think that transgender folks should not exist. they don't accept or understand gender dysphoria or gender vs. gender identity. they think that trans people are mentally ill or brainwashed, essentially that they are not legitimate people and shouldn't be normalized by society.
I'm sure there are some number of far right, hyper Christians that believe that. Most Americans, at least based on polling, are more than willing to give trans people all the rights except when it involves children and sports.
 
Your reply confirms the deeper divide in how we each understand politics. You’re describing a turnout operation. I’m describing a political strategy.

[Note: I removed the bulk of your post as I'm over the character limit. I left the beginning and end so you can reference which post it was.]

I’ll ask again: what, specifically, do you propose Democrats say to these “lean Dem” voters that will succeed where everything else has failed? What message? What emotional hook? Because if all you’ve got is “find the right issue through polling and hope for better turnout,” that’s not a political strategy.
You're correct that I want to win elections. I would love for Dems to sweep the 2028 elections with filibuster-proof majority in the Senate and a massive advantage in the House. But I know that given the geographic and gerrymandered advantages of the Pub across the country, that is nearly impossible to pull off. So I'll stick to trying to figure out a way that we win elections (and the WH and Congress) by actually possible margins in a pragmatic way. If Dems had the Pubs electoral advantages, I might be persuaded to try for bigger aims, but that is not the America we live in.

The difference between is us is that I want to win elections/majorities where possible and limit losses in down years while you want a revolution. You want to go for the big plays because you want to rewrite how society and government works and you need a large group of folks to do that.

Let me be clear about my stance: I am anti-revolution. I am even more deeply anti-populist. Populism is inevitably governance by the worst suited among us plundering the system while blaming others for all of their woes. You can certainly miss me with any sort of populist message if you want me to support your vision.

And our current situation is exactly why I am anti-revolution and anti-populist. Once you question the entirety of the system that oversees the country and those who operate it, you've provided a path for systemic change...but systemic change is very hard to predict and even harder to control. The message that "society/government isn't working for you" can much more easily create the motivation for change without creating the conditions that create positive change. And so the progressive message that "society/government isn't taking care of the working class" helped create the environment that ignored messages and policies coming from more institutionally-minded Dems (and Pubs) that made the 2010s ripe for a revolution...but we got right-wing, authoritarian fascist revolution rather than a progressive revolution. And now we're suffering from the effects of populism and revolution that would have been protected against under more moderate governments (Dem or Pub).

You discuss Obergefell and the success of legalized same-sex marriage...but you act like it was somehow society moving to adopt a different standard. SSM was the result of a nearly 50 year campaign by LGB advocates built on small, incremental change that added up over time. Yes, it was powered by compelling stories and folks coming out to their friends/families millions of times, but it was also built on small governmental actions over decades, as well. That is the kind of governmental actions I typically advocate for; Dem governments that push for incremental change that, over time, creates real societal good. And that is largely because it tends to create the type of sustainable change that lasts, although the revolutionary society/government of the last decade plus continues to threaten those gains.

You say that I don't ask why conservative working class voters vote against their economic interests and that I don't care why they do that. The problem with this view is that I completely ignores that you don't have the damnedest clue about me and what I know about the conservative working class. Let's do a short SnoopRob bio to correct your misunderstandings...

I grew up in a rural, largely white, working class community in NC. My extended family for generations have been working class, rural whites living in this community and nearly all of my friends and neighbors growing up came from very similar families. I left for college in Chapel Hill the expected product of such a community and held views that were largely in line with the folks I grew up with. However, my time in Chapel Hill expanded my views of both the world and people. Almost 15 years ago, i eventually moved back to the county I grew up in here in NC, again surrounded by the conservative working class that makes up the backbone of MAGA. And because my family is here and folks here have known me since I was a baby, I kinda/sorta "pass" and folks are fairly open about why they believe as they do. My county has gone for Trump ~72% in each of the last 3 elections, the majority of folks I intereact with on a daily basis are Trump supporters and most are full-on MAGA. Most of my extended family are MAGA and are certainly dedicated Trump voters/supporters. I don't question why they behave the way they do because I understand it...I was born into these folks, I was raised among these folks, I live among these folks, and I literally am surrounded by these folks on a daily basis.

The biggest reason they vote the way they do is because they are traditionalists who take a very high view of order/structure and believe that society should be structured in a certain way. God/Jesus & the Church are leaders of society...men are superior to women...whites have earned their place at the top of society...cisgendered folks and heterosexuals are "normal" and everyone else is abnormal...married folks are better than single folks...minorities are expected to know their (lower) place and accept that place...self-sufficiency is the norm and one should work for what they have (it's why government programs like disability or payments to farmers are ok, they're for "working folks or those who cannot work any longer" while other government programs are for lazy free-loaders)...work that creates tangible outputs is superior to work that does not. This traditionalist view makes up the foundation of their worldview and, when challenged, they will fight to preserve that worldview and hierarchy against treats to it. Even if that means preserving that worldview at the cost of lower personal economic success. These folks know what it's like to live paycheck-to-paycheck, they'll tighten their belts a little more if they know that they aren't also being replaced in the social order. (It's also why it's not surprising that some Hispanics have moved toward Trumpism. They're ultimately traditionalists, as well, and except for being racial minorities they fit well within the traditionalist worldview. As long as they don't feel in danger of being deported or extremely oppressed by society, they can be - and have been - pursuaded that preserving their overall worldview is more important than the "dangers" of LGBTQ folks and abortion.) Unfortunately, for all of us, this traditionalist view has full devolved into outright bigotry where traditionalists are more concerned with preserving the social order than recognizing the basic rights and humanity of all people.

So that is why I don't believe you can persuade these folks with promises about economic advances unless those economic advances are specifically geared toward them and do not assist (or do not assist as much) those they deem inherently beneath them. Conservative working class folks view themselves as the "backbone of our country" made up of "Real Americans" and others should not be deemed as important as they are. And unless Dems are willing to essentially sell out minority communities to specifically cater to conservative working class folks, then I am highly, highly skeptical that any "persuasive storytelling" is going to actually be persuasive to them. It's also why I don't think that most of the conservative speakers/propagandists that you think connect with this group actually do so in any meaningful way, the connection is based solely on what these folks want to hear and these speakers don't have the power change the minds of folks in this group. The speakers/propagandists can merely flatter them and move them to do things they already desire to do, not actually change their minds or act in novel ways.

As a summation of all of this, I believe that your dream of a political/social revolution based on the working class coming together to concentrate of the "material interests" of the working class is a pipe dream and one that is more likely to lead to negative consequences rather than positive ones. Unless you're willing to cast aside the social concerns - read: basic human rights - of large swaths of minority groups, there is very, very little way you'll convince the traditionalists in the conservative working class to join with working class minorities (much less any other minorities) to vote to adopt your vision, the best you'll do is convince them that they deserve better than what they have and push them further into the arms of authoritarian, right-wing populist movements (which, unsurprisingly, is what we see with Trumpism).
 
No one said HB2 was a total victory or that trans rights are safe in North Carolina. The point is that Republicans overreached, and they paid for it.

Yes: Cooper was a bland, centrist Democrat; that strengthens the argument. In a state Trump won, an uncharismatic moderate beat an incumbent Republican. IIRC, this was the first time an incumbent governor had lost a reelection bid in North Carolina history. Not because people fell in love with progressivism but because the GOP faceplanted on a culture war issue and got tagged as both extreme and economically reckless. That’s how terrain shifts.

You’re also treating the Republican recovery since then as proof that HB2 didn’t matter. But temporary setbacks don’t stop them from coming back. That’s true of any power struggle. If you’re going to dismiss every successful pushback just because the right eventually regroups, you’re basically arguing that nothing matters unless it ends in total victory.

You’re right that trans rights are still under attack, in North Carolina and elsewhere. That’s exactly why we need to understand what actually worked during the HB2 fight: not moral scolding, but reframing. Turning their cruelty into a joke. Tying it to real-world harm. Making them look like the weird ones obsessed with bathrooms instead of schools, jobs, or healthcare.

So it seems to me that shifting the emotional terrain is effective, not shallow.
HB2 was a minor loss in an otherwise winning war for Pubs...they had to overturn one bill (which was then enacted in many places through local legislation) and lost a centrist Pub governorship to a centrist Dem governorship.

And the real impetus for the victory wasn't because of "shifting the emotional terrain", it was because large businesses in blue states refused to do greater business in NC until a chance was made. That scared the business-first Pubs in Charlotte (and Raleigh) and convinced enough of them to get rid of it while otherwise continuing their war on minorities, while that an other issues convinced them to vote out a centrist Pub for a truly centrist Dem.

At no point did making pro-HB2 folks "look like the weird ones obsessed with bathrooms instead of schools, jobs, or healthcare" change much of anything as those folks did nothing to expand access to schools/jobs/healthcare as a result, it was the loss of business profit by businesses/groups outside NC that made the difference and led to HB2 being overturned.
 
As someone who ran for Congress in 2006 on a simple 3 part platform...

1) impeach GWB
2 ) establish national health insurance for all Americans
3 ) withdraw from Iraq and focus on diplomatic strategies to prevent the development of nuclear weapons in Iran

I did have other ideas but given the environment those were the most salient at the time

So with the understanding that I went down in flames in the Democratic primary, this would be my humble recommendation for those running in 2026...

1 ) advocating specific policies that will improve the lives of working and middle class families

2 ) Campaign on a theme that says "We are all Americans " to address broadly the various "woke " issues

3 ) Remind voters that we have been the shining city on a hill and an inspiration to those across the globe who hope to enjoy a democracy like we have enjoyed but is now under threat to go down the dark path of autocracy and join Russia and China.

I limit a political campaign to 3 themes, because I believe the average voter can only retain 3 themes throughout a campaign

now back to what I do best...day drinking;)
What was that like? not the losing, but going through the process.
 
I'm sure there are some number of far right, hyper Christians that believe that. Most Americans, at least based on polling, are more than willing to give trans people all the rights except when it involves children and sports.
it's not just the "far" right. a clear majority of those on the right are blatantly and admittedly transphobic. "most Americans" .....the left is doing all of the heavy lifting here.

52% of self described republicans or lean republican don't that believe trans people should be protected from discrimination in jobs, housing and public spaces. 67% of republicans are still obsessed with what bathroom trans folks use.

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This is also why Dobbs didn't generate the lopsided female vote we were expecting. Lots of women care about abortion and are pro-choice. They just don't care about it enough to share a picnic table with a Mexican.
The reality of this hurts. That sums up the last election to a tee.
 
What was that like? not the losing, but going through the process.
Going through the process was a learning experience indeed.

1 ) I learned that the press/news reporters are not very motivated to do legwork and interact face to face . They prefer to be spoonfed press releases.

Now it was 2006, an off year election with no state wide offices on the ballot. I called several news folks to inform them I was filing for Congress to challenge the incumbent Democrat in my district. I said I had a rather provocative platform and would be available for a Q&A after filing. MSM said just fax us a press release. I called several college newspapers. Only the dook** Chronical responded and asked when I would be filing. I told him (the editor ? ) that I would be filing at 10am. I shit you not that he said his reporters don't get up that early so fax us a press release.

2 ) I learned that self funding campaigns loses would be supporters who agree with you on the issues

3 ) I was able to interview with several liberal political groups who told me that we agree with your policy proposals and are not thrilled with the incumbent, but he can give us crumbs. After the interview with the Indy, I was counting on their important endorsement. When the time came for endorsements, the Indy published a very positive view of my platform, but like every other group , they said we will be endorsing the incumbent and hope he steps up.

So that was my experience going through the process.
 
it's not just the "far" right. a clear majority of those on the right are blatantly and admittedly transphobic. "most Americans" .....the left is doing all of the heavy lifting here.

52% of self described republicans or lean republican don't that believe trans people should be protected from discrimination in jobs, housing and public spaces. 67% of republicans are still obsessed with what bathroom trans folks use.

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There's really nothing surprising in that data. Republicans, as I mentioned, are primarily concerned about things involving kids and sports. The bathroom issue is included as "kids" topic.

Beyond those two general categories, I think a majority of Americans are more than happy to extend all rights to trans just as they do for gays.

The problem Dems have with voters is the purity test. If you aren't 100% onboard with "everything" trans, you're essentially out and people generally don't respond well to that approach.
 
Going through the process was a learning experience indeed.

1 ) I learned that the press/news reporters are not very motivated to do legwork and interact face to face . They prefer to be spoonfed press releases.

Now it was 2006, an off year election with no state wide offices on the ballot. I called several news folks to inform them I was filing for Congress to challenge the incumbent Democrat in my district. I said I had a rather provocative platform and would be available for a Q&A after filing. MSM said just fax us a press release. I called several college newspapers. Only the dook** Chronical responded and asked when I would be filing. I told him (the editor ? ) that I would be filing at 10am. I shit you not that he said his reporters don't get up that early so fax us a press release.

2 ) I learned that self funding campaigns loses would be supporters who agree with you on the issues

3 ) I was able to interview with several liberal political groups who told me that we agree with your policy proposals and are not thrilled with the incumbent, but he can give us crumbs. After the interview with the Indy, I was counting on their important endorsement. When the time came for endorsements, the Indy published a very positive view of my platform, but like every other group , they said we will be endorsing the incumbent and hope he steps up.

So that was my experience going through the process.
The Indy could have endorsed you in the Democratic Primary and you still would have been crushed.

You were running against a long-term incumbent who RARELY faced primary opposition and when he did, he won 80-90% of the vote. In the General Elections, he routinely won 60%+.

David Price had voted against invading Iraq in 2002. He wasn’t vulnerable from the left on that front.

Dubya was POTUS; and, would be until 1/20/2009. Your three primary issues were not going to be acted upon - the GOP controlled the House and had roughly a 55-45 majority in the Senate from 2005-2007. After the 2006 elections, the Democrats held a small majority with 233 House seats and 49-to-49 Senate seats with two Independents (both caucused with the Democrats; but, one was Joe Lieberman). The 60 vote filibuster in the Senate prevailed. Your legislation wasn’t passing the Congress onto the Oval Office desk - where it would be vetoed by Dubya.

A GOP President was in the White House. Your agenda was going nowhere.

You were running against a Democratic incumbent with 20 years of name recognition.

The media wasn’t lazy in not covering you. They’d rightly assessed your candidacy and decided, “He doesn’t stand a chance.”

If we’d have had public funding of elections divided equally among all the candidates, you’d have been crushed by name recognition.

Ask Brad Miller about his 1988 run for NC Secretary of State against Rufus Edmisten (and few liked Rufus).
 
There's really nothing surprising in that data. Republicans, as I mentioned, are primarily concerned about things involving kids and sports. The bathroom issue is included as "kids" topic.

Beyond those two general categories, I think a majority of Americans are more than happy to extend all rights to trans just as they do for gays.

The problem Dems have with voters is the purity test. If you aren't 100% onboard with "everything" trans, you're essentially out and people generally don't respond well to that approach.
the data isn't surprising at all and it completely invalidates your "everything about trans folks is hunky dory with pubs except sports and kids" bullshit narrative.

most republicans are quite clearly primarily concerned with all things about trans folks.

it bears repeating AGAIN that a "majority of Americans" is 80-90% of dems and 30-40% of republicans.

this is why i brought up the fact that republicans control all three branches of the federal government. the side that is blatantly transphobic has total control right now.

this is notable and problematic despite your bad faith attempts to brush it aside and pretend like the only trans issues are sports and kids. the right's issues with trans folks go WELL beyond sports and kids.
 
the data isn't surprising at all and it completely invalidates your "everything about trans folks is hunky dory with pubs except sports and kids" bullshit narrative.

most republicans are quite clearly primarily concerned with all things about trans folks.

it bears repeating AGAIN that a "majority of Americans" is 80-90% of dems and 30-40% of republicans.

this is why i brought up the fact that republicans control all three branches of the federal government. the side that is blatantly transphobic has total control right now.

this is notable and problematic despite your bad faith attempts to brush it aside and pretend like the only trans issues are sports and kids. the right's issues with trans folks go WELL beyond sports and kids.
I didn't say everything was hunky dory. I said a majority of Americans (R, D and I), with the exception of things related to kids and sports, support trans rights.
 
I didn't say everything was hunky dory. I said a majority of Americans (R, D and I), with the exception of things related to kids and sports, support trans rights.
And since when does what a majority of Americans feel on a particular issue matter? What matters in our society is what the majority of the controlling party's elected officials feel on an issue....not even their own constituents.

We don't have any semblance of a representative democracy.
 
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