The country got what it wanted, no doubt about it. And more disappointing is the number of female voters who voted Trump over Kamala. That's what I find the most offensive.
To your second question: No, American's aren't ready to elect a female to POTUS. They didn't elect Hillary. Kamala actually lost ground to what Hillary and Biden secured so I'd say for the near term, Democrats will have to lean into the misogyny of this country and nominate men for the foreseeable future ... if they want to win.
Latinos, AFAM men, even white female voters, aren't ready to elect a woman. It's pretty clear that we have a long way to go on equality with women as the leading voice in America.
I worked for the campaign in NC this cycle. A lot of voters just didn't trust her (again, probably cover for their bias and misogyny). We need to at least be willing to acknowledge that this exists.
I'm not all in on brute forcing this onto America if it means Democrats lose. That's just outright stupid.
We've tried, twice. It isn't going to work. Not yet anyway.