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Prolly something to this… in some form or another.
I just can’t quite trust anybody named Vivek right now.
I just can’t quite trust anybody named Vivek right now.
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No. Alcoholism is when it becomes an addiction. Some people can drink that much and never develop a dependency, either physical or mental. I did it for 20-30 years, quit the day I got my diagnosis, and never had a moment's issue. Admittedly, Stage 4 cancer is a powerful motivator but, as far as I know, it doesn't do anything for physical dependencies.Yeah, 4-6 drinks a night is unequivocally alcoholism.
It's the animal way. Other species also routinely use intoxicants. To hell with a bunch of human exceptionalism. About the only thing special about us is that we can keep records, although mostly of our lies and legends.Booze and pill poppin.......its the American way. What an emotionally fucked up society we live in.
I suppose there is argument for a small sliver of folks that can drink 4-6 drinks a day for 30 years and not be classified as having alcohol use disorder; I simply haven’t met them amongst the hundreds of people I’ve encountered, inpatient, with that pattern of drinking.No. Alcoholism is when it becomes an addiction. Some people can drink that much and never develop a dependency, either physical or mental. I did it for 20-30 years, quit the day I got my diagnosis, and never had a moment's issue. Admittedly, Stage 4 cancer is a powerful motivator but, as far as I know, it doesn't do anything for physical dependencies.
You can look at it a few ways:The numbers I saw on the subject didn't seem to amount to much at first glance. 20K supposed alcohol related cancer deaths out of the million+ deaths in the U.S. each year. And no info on how many of those are legit alcoholics as opposed to people blowing off steam with 4-6 drinks a night who might meet a technical medical definition.
So you survived stage 4 throat cancer in addition to all of that? "Might be just how you're wired?" Might be that you're wired like fucking Rasputin.Believe it or not, I never had any of those in my later years except the increased tolerance after my very early 20s. I never binge drank. I never missed work or family stuff. I generally quit drinking an hour or so before I went to bed. Even after 30 years, there was a point that I reached that, even if I had just poured a fresh drink, that I would stop drinking and put it in the fridge or freezer. Don't ask about the crazy shit I did in the early 70s. Not sure self medication and drug abuse are exactly the same issue although hard to separate.
Might just be how I'm wired. I quit smoking cold turkey after 20+ years of 2-3 packs a day. I did have physical and mental issues for a while with that one. It took two tries but I quit amphetamines the same way back in the 70s.
I definitely have or have had abuse issues but unlike a lot of my friends, I don't think I ever so much lost control as much as I didn't exercise any. For example, my BiL absolutely could not drink and it essentially killed him.
You're always such a ray of sunshine!Booze and pill poppin.......its the American way. What an emotionally fucked up society we live in.
He makes me look like a fucking CareBear.You're always such a ray of sunshine!
Sugar for me. This is why I'm not losing any ounces.Abstaining from alcohol seems to create cravings for carbs and sweets for a lot of people. I'm a whopping four days into a dry January and need to get the rest of my diet in order this coming week.
If you drink 4-6 a night medical professionals will label you an alcoholic. But like you say it's pretty damn common and tons of people do it their entire life with no issues. Out of the immediate circle of people I communicate with on a weekly basis, probably 30 people, at least ten of them drink this much. I do it and when I am forced to not do it because of whatever circumstance, it's not an issue.No. Alcoholism is when it becomes an addiction. Some people can drink that much and never develop a dependency, either physical or mental. I did it for 20-30 years, quit the day I got my diagnosis, and never had a moment's issue. Admittedly, Stage 4 cancer is a powerful motivator but, as far as I know, it doesn't do anything for physical dependencies.
Had a fieldwork with VA home health, a number of years ago. Primary service was Chatham and Alamance. Walked with 90+ year old vet from his trailer to his fishing hole. He told me “years ago” he dried out because god spoke to him while he was strolling that very path (the sun shone through some trees, or some such).My friend's dad - a doctor (may he RIP) - once said his older sister (in her late 80's at the time; he was in his 70's and retired) shared that her personal physician told her she needed to "stop smoking and quit drinking those gin tonics every day!".
My friend's dad told his sister: "Don't you dare! You'll drop dead in a minute if you do!"
I guess we'll all go ahead and draw our petty conclusions.
"There's a lot of doctors tell meMy friend's dad - a doctor (may he RIP) - once said his older sister (in her late 80's at the time; he was in his 70's and retired) shared that her personal physician told her she needed to "stop smoking and quit drinking those gin tonics every day!".
My friend's dad told his sister: "Don't you dare! You'll drop dead in a minute if you do!"
I guess we'll all go ahead and draw our petty conclusions.