You're right, you don't know anything about Judaism. Check out Lamentations 3:30 for a Jewish prefiguration of what you've claimed is a uniquely Christian view, whatever the fuck that would mean coming out of the mouth of Jesus, i.e. a Jew.I'm not going to talk extensively about Judaism, as I'm not knowledgeable about the topic. "One of revenge" is not really a good way to put my point. But as we know, turn the other cheek is a Christian principle, and while many Jewish congregations (perhaps most) have adopted some version of the general idea, the most conservative sects generally have not. And you can see that in the way they seek to solve problems. They are big into Biblical justice.
As for behavior codes, I mean -- that's what kosher is. And the ultraorthodox have a bunch of other rules whose origins I don't understand but are definitely behavior codes. Sex is not supposed to be about attraction, and thus the women intentionally make themselves ugly. They shave their heads in weird ways (and then wear wigs in public), and there are of course strict clothing rules, and the men have some odd requirements as well. This knowledge comes a friend of mine who subletted an apartment in Boro Park NY for a year, as well as an Israeli gf who I lived with for a year and a half. I'm not offering it as definitive proof, but that's my understanding at least.
I'm ok with the claim that the 600-odd Jewish laws are "behavior codes" according to some view-from-nowhere sociology. But only insofar as that reductionism is complemented with an emic perspective of how those same orthodox Jews conceptualize what they're doing. Those laws aren't laws in the anti-Jewish ways that you've suggested in other posts--the mitzvot are a gift from God that enable Jews to commit acts of loving service, including all the niceties that you seem to think are the natural preserve of Christians and, no doubt, enlightened liberals such as yourself.