I think Jordon has two things going against her, quite independent of her behavior (which I don't know much about):
1. She has a godawful case of RBF -- RBF, of course, being one of the worse physical qualities for a young woman trying to make her way.
2. She compounds #1 with a weird unwillingness to smile. I thought, oh surely she smiles sometimes and the media is just focusing on the ones that make her look bitchy. Well, google her images and there are still few smiling pics. Not even the glamour photo shots.
Bill Belichick's children 'hope' his relationship with 24-year-old Jordon Hudson is a 'good choice' for the UNC football coach, a source tells PEOPLE exclusively.
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So she basically always looks like she's scheming or showing off her beauty. And maybe that's why she rubs people the wrong way. People always suspect the May-December romances as being transactional and her personal style seems to reinforce rather than dispel that suspicion.
I don't know much about young ambitious trophy wives, but it seems to me that the most successful of them make sure never to upstage their men. That's the deal, right? The woman gets to live like a queen and will end up with big $$ even after the marriage is done (esp. if there's child support); in public, she's supposed to be an ornament. I was reading about Nicole Shanahan after RFK selected her. She did it right. She fucked half of Silicon Valley until she landed Brin; then she stayed anonymous for a little while and nobody ever heard of her. After the divorce, after she got billions, then she emerged.
Jordon looks impatient, in contrast. That is, she makes it look too obvious. Which would be a shame if that wasn't her motivation at all. I generally think it's a bad idea to judge people based on a couple of news stories and some photos, no matter how cringey they might be. Maybe she is who she appears to be. But if not, she needs to recalibrate her strategies.