UNC Football Catch-all | Bill Belichick Era underway

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My issue with this whole ordeal isn't with Jordan Hudson. Not one bit, in fact. My problem is 100% with Bill Belichick.

I don't care whether Hudson is a gold digger or clout chaser or celebrity chaser or if she's madly in love. Sincerely good for her either way, and I wish her well. I also don't care that there is a five decade delta between the two of them. It might be cringey and it might be weird, but it ultimately isn't my business. Love who you love, date who you wanna date, IMO.

I place 100% of the blame on Belichick for, apparently, being completely full of shit on being Mr. "Hard ass, consumed fully by football, no nonsense, eliminate distractions at all costs, keep the main thing the main thing always." There isn't a snowball's chances in the most superficial depths of hell that this would have happened to 2000-2023 New England Patriots Bill Belichick. He wouldn't even let the greatest QB of all time- the guy more singularly responsible for Belichick's own career success than even Belichick himself- bring his trainer in the Pats facility.

We always used to say of Mack Brown's program, "you get exactly what you tolerate." Well, Bill is getting exactly what he is allowing and tolerating. It is completely on him 100%, not on Jordon Hudson.
 
4thgenheel said:
its obnoxious when people flog young women about smiling more but when you're a public figure it will definitely help your image.
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Absolutely. Especially if
nycfan said:
Setting aside the entire football saga, and not to derail the thread, but it is clearly not well understood (or understood and intended) how tiresome it is for women to be critiqued for “resting bitch face” and not smiling enough. I mean fucking look at Belichick’ resting bulldog face. But that’s manly, I guess. Way too many men have what I’ll charitably call resting leer face.

Years ago, a partner of mine called to express his deeply felt disgrace that our shared client had cursed extensively in a meeting I was attending. He had never heard this client speak that way around a woman and couldn’t believe the client would speak that way with me present. I told him I appreciated the consideration but (a) nothing I haven’t heard before and (b) much better for me that my client think of me a his lawyer around whom he in comfortable cursing at length than as a woman.

So it’s a multi-edged sword. Smile to be aesthetically pleasing, to “light up a room”, to put others at ease. Don’t smile too much or you seem frivolous or stupid. Don’t smile enough and you’re a bitch.

Everyone assumes that Belichick is a man among men football coach but also a victim of his own age and libido, great enough to be the best football coach ever by weak enough to be taken advantage of by a young gold digger.

And she would’ve gotten away with it, too, if only she would just smile a little more often.
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To be clear, I'm not offering any general criticism of RBF. I'm not even criticizing Jordon for it because I don't know her and have no idea what she's like in private. i also agree that "smile more" is usually more a form of condescension and rationalization than actual advice.

In this specific case, I'm saying that the RBF is doing her no favors at all, specific to this limited circumstance:

1. She's a very young woman whose standing right now (in Chapel Hill at least) is due to her romance with the old HC. "Young woman lands older man, and immediately sets about changing everything" is a very old story. (I've seen it many a time in corporate law, btw). So people are going to be suspicious; I think that's more or less natural and isn't really gendered. And in that case, it's not good if one's natural facial expression makes one look even more scheming or manipulative.

2. I'm not saying smile more. I'm saying, "smile at least a little bit" and I think that's good advice for anyone, regardless of gender.

3. I wouldn't say this if she was a coach. I certainly wouldn't if she was a coach and it was during a game. But we're seeing her in scenarios where she should be smiling. Like the red carpet photos that are on the internet. Or, for that matter, during 60 Minutes. Again, I don't think "smile a little" is gendered.

4. My point in raising the RBF was actually trying to be generous to her. I think it's fair to say that a lot of people are unhappy with her. Maybe that's because she's actually a manipulative bitch. I don't know that. I'm wondering if she comes across that way in part because of her facial expressions, and inferring bitchiness from bitch face is not justified. Common, though -- common enough to affect perception, I think.

Obviously it's all speculation, really. But I'm not a person who usually notices smiles or people smiling, so for me to notice it is something.
 
nycfan said:
Everyone assumes that Belichick is a man among men football coach but also a victim of his own age and libido, great enough to be the best football coach ever by weak enough to be taken advantage of by a young gold digger.
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To be clear, I don't think of BB as a victim. He's making his own choices. If he's being manipulated, it's because he's letting it happen.

At the same time, it really doesn't help anyone that she looks manipulative.
 
nycfan said:
Setting aside the entire football saga, and not to derail the thread, but it is clearly not well understood (or understood and intended) how tiresome it is for women to be critiqued for “resting bitch face” and not smiling enough. I mean fucking look at Belichick’ resting bulldog face. But that’s manly, I guess. Way too many men have what I’ll charitably call resting leer face.

Years ago, a partner of mine called to express his deeply felt disgrace that our shared client had cursed extensively in a meeting I was attending. He had never heard this client speak that way around a woman and couldn’t believe the client would speak that way with me present. I told him I appreciated the consideration but (a) nothing I haven’t heard before and (b) much better for me that my client think of me a his lawyer around whom he in comfortable cursing at length than as a woman.

So it’s a multi-edged sword. Smile to be aesthetically pleasing, to “light up a room”, to put others at ease. Don’t smile too much or you seem frivolous or stupid. Don’t smile enough and you’re a bitch.

Everyone assumes that Belichick is a man among men football coach but also a victim of his own age and libido, great enough to be the best football coach ever by weak enough to be taken advantage of by a young gold digger.

And she would’ve gotten away with it, too, if only she would just smile a little more often.
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Now that’s a proper fucking poast.
 
Geisterfahrer said:
Now that’s a proper fucking poast.
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nycfan and my daughter are very nicely trying to clue us men on what they deal with on an hourly basis while we men just assume they are "just like us" yet new research and evidence based studies show just how effed up the predominant paradigm is. On my daughter's recommendation I will be starting this book tomorrow:
Invisible Women: Exposing Data Bias in a World Designed for Men Google Search
It's amazing how much gender and data or lack there of are tied together.
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