No we’re not going to find common ground, especially when you’re not recognizing or acknowledging how it would be offensive to accuse Roy, in your own words more than once, of a “nepo hire” and saying the hiring was like a new HS grad taking over daddy’s plant. This was the example you chose, of all examples imaginable. Nepotism by its very definition as well as its connotation is a slight, and attack on character and integrity, indicating unethical favoritism of a personal relationship over merit. There’s no debating that. You say:
I'm not challenging Roy's character as I don't think he acted in a malicious or unethical way. I have no doubt that he believed (and possibly still does) that Hubert was the best choice for HC when he retired.
If you’re not challenging Roy’s character, then USE BETTER WORDS. Because the words and examples you used *absolutely* indicate challenging character and is a slight on both of them. Whether or not we agree about Roy’s decision and HD’s qualifications, there is no way to deny that what you said is an attack on character. Period. The test? Ask yourself in a hypothetical if you would say that to their faces. “Roy, that was a nepo hire with no objective way to justify it, just like a new HS grad taking over daddy’s plant.” Because if he deigned to take you seriously, I guarantee he’d be highly, highly offended and feel that his character, integrity, and judgment were being attacked, while all the work and thought and consultation and time he’d put into that decision had been dismissed.
You think head coaching experience is the best way to evaluate a candidate for a position like that, which is reasonable. But it is not the ONLY way. To think that is unreasonable. Otherwise Roy would’ve never got the Kansas job. Was that nepotism too? Dean pulled strings Roy didn’t deserve on merit? So clearly, it’s ALSO reasonable to evaluate a candidate like HD based on life and comprehensive basketball experience at the highest levels of all facets of the game. Especially when he was by Roy’s side for a decade and owns a piece of all those successes. This is how Roy evaluated him. And if you don’t want to respect that, that’s on you. But own it, stop prevaricating. You said what you said, and those words you used have meaning that I won’t let you discount or revise.
Regarding defending HD as a coach, his record and successes in 3 full seasons far exceed most other coaches in their lifetimes. One championship game and nearly a title, and one ACC title and Sweet 16. We know that that bottom line belies the roller coaster it’s been, but that’s the bottom line nevertheless. And I’d call that “up to the task.” Anyone who wouldn’t is an idiot. That doesn’t mean there aren’t big problems currently in roster construction, recruiting misses, consistency in energy and effort… and I pointed out all of these things and more, earlier. Along with the challenges HD has faced. But if they tailspin and he’s gone at the end of this season, so be it. If he’s out after a mediocre or bad next season, so be it. But either way, he earned his shot.